1. Do you make one another laugh?
Laughter is the best medicine, and you’ll need a lot of it in marriage. Do you find yourself laughing a lot with this person? Do you try to make them smile just as much as they make you smile? Can they laugh at themselves? All these questions will help you know whether spending eternity with this person would be joyful or stressful.
2. Do you learn from one another?
Do you learn important life lessons from your loved one? Just as important as the first question may be a second: are you each teachable, humble, and willing to learn? By the same token, make sure that you let your loved one learn things on their own. Don’t jump in and accomplish the task for them, or you may end up with a husband that doesn’t actually know which button to push on the washing machine or a wife that could never fix a toilet.
3. Do you want to become more like this person?
Spending a lifetime with another person—not to mention eternity—will certainly change you. Couples naturally rub off on each other, and so it’s important to know if you want that person to … READ MORE HERE